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You have chosen your partner at a <a href="https://www.ditchordate.com/" rel="noopener">speed dating event</a>. You should be aware of the following etiquettes of dating. This will hold you in good stead.

Turn your mobile phone off:
You will admit that the most irritating thing in the midst of a conversation is the incessant ringing of your mobile phone. Face Book and Twitter can wait as you have more important things to do while dating.

Allow him to take the lead:
It is always chivalrous to let the man pay the bill. That is good manners. Many times you may feel that you should share the bill. There is absolutely no harm in having such an intention. You should remember that this might be his first date too and he might be equally nervous. There are no hard and fast rules to follow in this scenario. However it is always better to allow him to make the first move. There is plenty of time left for you to figure out gender roles.

Be sure of yourself and be decisive:
It is the first date for you. You have a right to feel nervous. However that should not come in the way of expressing yourself. Hemming and hawing will take you nowhere. In fact it might out him off. It is your date. In case you feel uncomfortable, you have the option to call it off. It is better to be decisive now than to suffer later on.

Be present in body as well as in mind:
Will it not irritate you if your boyfriend shows disinterest in the proceedings? He too has the same right. So, always be present in body as well as in mind throughout your date. It is always good to be a god listener. So, try to listen to rather than hear what he says. Never try to talk non-stop about yourself as this might be taken as a sight of nervousness. Try to be aware of the situation and give him an equal opportunity to talk. In this way you can learn more of him.

Break the ice:
There may be occasions when you might feel tongue tied. He may feel the same too. So somebody has to break the ice. It can be you. It is better to tell him that you are feeling nervous. It might calm his nerves too. In this way both of you may feel comfortable.

Know your boundaries:
Remember, this is your first date. You need not reveal everything about yourself to him on the first opportunity. If the date clicks, you have a lifetime to share your moments. It is your body and you have the right to draw the line where you deem fit. It is never a great idea to indulge in sex on your first date. There is a lifetime left for you to have sex.

Do not drink too much:
Know your limits as far as taking drinks are concerned. A glass of wine or two might be enough. It is always good for both of you to know about each other when you are sober. Remember. You can always drink on your honeymoon.
The above mentioned things to note are just illustrative and not exhaustive. It is always better to be safe rather than sorry. Knowing these tricks before you attend the dating events is a great idea.
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